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Friday, May 8, 2009

24 For Winston

24 For Winston

A 24 Hour Run to raise money and awareness of Lymphatic and Venous Malformations

UPDATE: The run has been completed! To read a post-run update go to http://www.winstonrun.blogspot.com/. We are still taking donations. Just click on the "To Donate" button above for more information. Please read below or the post-run update to learn about Winston and his condition and stuggles. And please donate. Chris and Jen still need your help!


Back in February, my good friends Jen and Chris had their first child, a boy named Winston. Winston was born with two rare complex malformations called Lymphatic and Venous Malformations. (Click here to learn more.) Lymphatic malformations are varying sized cystic abnormalities of the lymphatic system occurring in perhaps 1 in 10,000 births. To understand exactly what Winston is going through, I asked Jen to write up a short synopsis:

"It wasn’t until the day Winston was born that we knew exactly what we were up against and the diagnosis is always evolving as we learn more from specialists. His previous diagnosis during pregnancy was something that could have been lopped off and life could have gone on. But that was not to be our path……..lymphatic and venous malformations are something that can only be managed and never fully cured. How did he get it? Pure, pure luck………there is no reason it happens. As Winston was developing in the womb, his lymph nodes never fully sealed.. Thus causing the lymphatic fluid to channel into good muscle tissue and create caverns of liquid. When you work on one cyst, they say it’s like squeezing a balloon and the fluid goes somewhere else. The venous malformation is similar to a lymphatic malformation only it involves blood and the veins……we’re still learning about that one! We only just found out that he had a combined case! Winston is like his mom and likes to go big! Who wants to have one malformation when you can have two!!! J Some days are better than others in terms of his swelling. And some days we have “good tongue days” and “bad tongue days” depending on how swollen it is. On a “bad tongue day” he has problems keeping his tongue in his mouth and it looks like a hamburger patty. Winston had his first surgery three days after he was born where they cut him from ear to ear to try and remove two macro cysts and put his trach in as well. A week later, they cut him open once again to put a feeding tube in. And two weeks later, a needle was inserted ten times into his face to inject doxycycline into the cysts. That doesn’t include the fact that his birth involved thirty people and he had to start life on a ventilator. And just to add more excitement, Winston thought it would be fun to make Chris practice his CPR and he stopped breathing on us and turned blue due to blood from his tongue occluding his airway……….scariest moment of our lives."


Winston has to endure a feeding tube that he may or may not ever be able to get rid of. He has a tracheostemy to help him breath that gets changed every couple of weeks. Those two things we hope he will lose in time but for now it is an indefinite fixture in his life that is necessary in order to guarantee him an airway and nutrition. Due to Winston's condition, Chris and Jen qualified for 16 hours per day (in home) nursing care. The nurses are not always the same person and Chris and Jen often find themselves having to train each new nurse that comes to stay at their house. There is so much that is not known about these malformations.

Many of Chris and Jen's friends in Kansas are doing what they can to help in regards to day-to-day life. Some bring meals, some help during the hours that they are not afforded nurse care and others come by to complete household chores that are often left unattended to as Winston's care dictates their full attention. Since I live in Colorado I am not able do any sort of "hands on" help that the locals in Kansas can do. And that's why I've brought you here.

Winston is in need of care 24 hours a day. Obviously that is 24 hours a day, every day, every week, month, etc. What I am going to do is run for 24 hours. On Friday, September 18 at 2pm I am going to start running and I will not stop until 2pm on Saturday, September 19. This will be symbolic of the 24 hours per day that Winston needs attention and the 24 hours a day that Chris and Jen are affected. 24 hours of running will hurt, but the pain will go away. Taking care of Winston plus all of the emotional and financial trauma is every day for Chris and Jen.
How can you help?

1. Donate prior to my run (instructions below).

2. Pledge to donate a set amount per mile that I complete in 24 hours. (I will update this site after the run with total mileage completed, etc.)

3. (For our local Colorado friends)
Join my support team! Help out my wife, Rachel (and our newborn daughter Avery), with food, drink, extra clothes, etc. and/or join me for a portion of the run. The route is linked below (will start in Boulder and end in Denver). You can sign up to run (or bike) with me for any portion of the route at specific times. E-mail me at mizzoutigers12@yahoo.com if you are interested in taking part and I will get you more information or you can sign up below via the link provided.

Click here if you'd like to sign up to run (or bike) a portion with me!

Click to view my route: View Interactive Map on MapMyRun.com

(If you'd like to come out and support me during the run)

To donate, send a check to: (make check out to "24 For Winston")

24 For Winston
4722
Edison Lane
Boulder, Colorado 80301

Or use your credit/debit card with this Paypal link:

(After you login (you must have a Paypal account), click "send money" (then enter my e mail address of (mizzoutigers12@yahoo.com,) click on "personal" and then indicate "gift." E mail me directly if you have trouble with this step.)



All of your money goes directly to Chris and Jen for use with all things Winston related. None of the money goes to their personal account.

I sincerely hope that you can find a way to donate any amount of money. My wife and I had our first child on August 1 this year and I cannot even begin to fathom going through a percentage of what Chris, Jen and Winston go through on a daily basis. Their lives have truly been turned upside down. Thank you in advance for any help that you can give.

Leave a message below for Chris, Jen and Winston!
To get more of an insight of what Chris, Jen and Winston are going through, below are some more answers to questions I asked Jen:

How have your lives have changed due to Winston's condition? (minus regular baby stuff)
Wow………that’s a crazy one! Chris and I have now become part-time medics besides first time parents. Never in our wildest dreams did we think we would know was much as we do about lymphatic and venous malformations and a room full of medical equipment. Our days consist of cleaning medical equipment, feeding our son through his mic-key button, suctioning his trach, training nurses on how to care for our son, trach changes, and much more on top of the regular newborn baby stuff!! Winston needs to be constantly supervised due to his trach and has 16 hours of nursing care a day. So from 9am-5pm we have a nurse as well as from 10pm-6am. And we cover in between as well as during. The huge misconception is that people think when you have a nurse you just hand him off and your job is done……not the case!! We are hands on parents and aid in the care of Winston. A lot of things that deal with his trach are a two person job. Not to mention we have had many nightmare stories from working with private home nurses………..that’s a whole other email! You never fully rest easy when he’s in the care of others. As well as, the fact that you never relax fully when you have a constant stream of nurses you don’t know constantly in your house at all hours of the day.

Additional expenses and treatments due to Winston's condition
The larger expenses occur as we begin to travel for Winston’s specialty treatments. Dr. Waner and Dr. Berenstein at New York’s Vascular Birthmark Institute and Roosevelt Hospital are the best of the best. Winston has already seen them once and had two treatments while he was there. They strongly suggest that he have a year of aggressive treatments due to the involvement of the cysts in his mouth and tongue. A treatment consists of sclerosing treatments of doxycycline and bleomyecin and possibly some resectioning of his tongue to de-bulk it. Winston needs to have treatments every 6 weeks in order for them to attack the cysts and stop any malformations of the jaw growth due to the fact that his lips do not touch most of the day. Dr. Waner out of New York flies all over the world to help people with lymphatic and venous malformations. We have only begun to uncover what all it will entail to help Winston. Most cases we have read online, after a few years the children can end up losing their trach and feeding tube which they feel is possible for Winston. But every single child and every single cyst is different.

Our daily expenses include up-keeping a nursery/medical room. Besides the medical supplies which are thankfully supplied through health insurance and Medicaid, we have to provide a constant stream of simple items such as paper towels, hand sanitizer, trash bags, hydrogen peroxide, white vinegar, dish soap, etc. to help them run a clean environment. Plus we have a pile of medical bills from his 7 week stay in the NICU. We have healthcare and Medicaid but not everything is fully covered.

Anything additional you can think of.
We are only asking for help because we cannot get through this and help Winston on our own. But not only that, we want to take this opportunity and use it in a positive way. After we reach a leveling point, we want to start a website of our own. When we needed it, there was nothing out there that made us feel hopeful. So I want to have online resources for parents that can provide that one little bit of hope you need to get through such a traumatic event. Not only that, I want to create books that help parents, siblings, the child him or herself, realize that it’s not the end of the world when it comes to cystic hygroma, a trach, or a feeding tube. Life does go on and it’s all about how you look at it. With the out of town specialists, we just have to know that we tried everything we possibly could to help him get through this and take it as far as we can. And at the same time we also have to enable him to have the self confidence to hold his head up high whether the treatments work or not!!

Jen and Chris will check this site regularly so feel free to leave them a message below:

18 comments:

  1. Hi guys!
    I knew about Winston's CH, but I was truly unaware of the daily challenges you all face. What a sweet little boy! He is so lucky to have two such genuine, caring, kind, and fun parents.
    Thanks, Fletch, for running. You are a good friend.
    My love to all of you.
    -wendy

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  2. Lifting you in thoughts and prayers as you navigate through this new journey in life. Winston is a special spirit with amazing parents helping him along the way. My best to you all! Truly.
    -jamie (burrell) albert

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  3. Please know that Gary and I think of you often. We know nothing of your mental/spiritual/physical difficulties, but I can truly understand the medical and monetary hurdles you face. None of this will be cheap. We will, of course, help in any way we can. Also, please remember that "normal" parenthood is tough and tests your patience and resolve. Allow yourselves to be frustrated, tired, upset, and generally a "bad" parent from time to time. All great Moms and Dads have their moments even in the best of circumstances. Also, make it a point to have some time to yourselves on as regular a basis as possible. A date night. It's tough to do for many reasons, but you will be better partners and parents if you can swing it.

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  4. HOLY COW! Fletch--you're the man!

    Jen & Chris--I will absolutely keep you both and Mr. Winston in my thoughts and prayers!

    Have you guys thought about setting up a pay-pal account? From my own fundraising for the Breast Cancer 3-day, if someone can pay online right then and there, they'll do it. Writing a check can sometimes end up as an after thought. You can add a link right on this blog's side bar and with a quick click--wala! Donations o' plenty. Something to think about! : )

    All the best, everyone!
    Kelley McClure
    CLH Staff 95, 96, 98
    Full time camp staff 2002-2005

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  5. Kelly, can you e mail me at mizzoutigers12@yahoo.com and give some info on how to set up the Paypal? I'm a little slow...

    Fletch

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  6. Think of you ALL the time...
    Marty has tried to call a couple of times but knows it is a crap shoot at best...plus he is still a gimme, so there you go.
    If there is anything we can do from here in suburban Brainerd, don't hesitate for a moment.
    Stay strong - we're all behind you.
    Tell Winston that he is lucky to have you two. We look forward to a time when we can meet him. I'm sure we'll be rollin' through the great state of Kansas at some point!
    The Gitchells

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  7. Chris and Jen, I have no words that do justice to your situation. Our family will keep you in our thoughts and prayers and we are here to help out in anyway we can. Winston is lucky to have you both.

    Love,
    Lisa Corchran Hake

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  8. Bertrand Family, thank you for letting us help. You are amazing parents and so extra special for your strength. Please know that CPE friends are near and will help!

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  9. I wish you equal measures of strength, joy, compassion, love and courage. Best wishes for you all! Your devotion is inspiring.

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  10. Chris, Jen & Winston~
    I'm just now learning of your story and minute-to-minute challenges. Please know that we will lift you all in our daily prayers and want to help in any way we can.
    You mention coming to Ohio for treatment. Is it Cincinnati Childrens? We live in a suburb north of the city (about 25 minutes away) from Childrens/Ronald McDonald house. Please let me know if you'll be here and need housing, transportation, meals, anything at all! tim-erin@cinci.rr.com 513-339-0380
    *Thank you Chris for putting this together and giving us all an opportunity to help! I admire you and will cheer your run on from here in Cincy!
    Our love and prayers are with you all!
    Love,
    Erin(dolan)Kuhn
    friend of Chris'from gvl

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  11. As I am a praying man, you have been in them for quite some time already. And as I am also short and fat, I cannot run with Fletch but can put bike tire to pavement to share his journey and purpose.
    Love to all three of you.
    Dave

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  12. You all are so inspiring! Winston is such a special gift. And every time he opens his eyes and sees you smiling back at him, it will give him all the encouragement he'll need. Please continue to share your challenges and successes with your friends so we can continue to support you and celebrate with you! You are a beautiful family with so many wonderful gifts!
    good thoughts and big hugs to you all!!!

    Jill and Jason Livingston

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  13. Chris, Jen, and Winston,

    Our thoughts, prayers, and love surround you as you face the daily struggles before you. May the love and support of all those who hold you dear bring you strength and comfort (& maybe even a little bit of laughter) as you navigate your journey. Peace and Paws, lisa & Clementine

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  14. Jen and Chris, you are truly blessed with wonderful friends! I will spread the word about the "24 For Winston Run". I still have a little monkey here, waiting for a little pal to hang around with. You are in my thought and prayers.
    Joanie Balonie

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  15. Fletch, what a perfectly gorgeous thing to do for this family --you are the loyal friend to end all loyal friends; I so admire that about you.

    Jen and Chris, miracles happen all the time --so glad to hear you have found a doctor who can give you some real hope. Even more, I'm so glad you have a friend like Fletch, with such a beautifully compassionate imagination when it comes to the people he loves. All my best to you.

    Marta (Skluzacek) Drew
    CLH staff 94-96

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  16. Jen & Chris,

    Matt & I are just learning of this & are praying for you and Winston! I wanted to share a few verses that have helped me in any difficult situation I have been in. I hope they can encourage you as well:

    "Be strong and courageous. Do not tremble or be afraid for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:9

    "May the God of all hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of his Holy Spirit." Romans 15:13

    Blessings,
    Katie & Matt Bodell
    (from HGTV showdown)

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  17. just wanted to say hi to jen, chris and winston. and that i'll be praying for you guys. :) just an fyi - i was born with cystic hygroma in 1972. i remember the difficult days and nights inside and outside of the hospitals... the sleepy and worried faces of my parents and family after surgeries... so long ago, but sometimes, very fresh in my mind. and i still consider myself blessed with a wonderful crazy life. i've travelled the world, had a great career, met my wonderful husband and have two healthy children. take care, get some rest, you are in my thoughts. :)

    fletch, rachel and avery - thank you for caring so much about your friends... so inspiring! :)

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  18. Hi Jen, Chris and little Winston.

    We too have a daughter who was born with a lymphatic malformation. She is now 15, and is scheduled to have her 5th major surgery in September.

    It is a long haul, but we, like you have had friends and family here for support all along the way.

    Winston will have a bright future. It sounds like you have found a good resource- but if you need anything at all, please don't hesitate to let me know. We have been there before and understand what to expect...

    You are all in our thoughts.

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